So I'm on the phone with one of the guys who broke my heart in the past. Why? Looooooong story :\ Anywho, somehow we get on the topic of me having children. I quickly shut that discussion DoWn! As of right now, I dont see myself having kids. So he says "Why not?" And I say "Because I've shut down... I don't want to have sex anymore, and don't see myself getting married so that means no kids for me!"
I guess he saw this as his perfect opportunity to let me know just how little I actually meant to him while we were f*cK!nG <- so the truth because there was ABSOLUTELY no commitment! He fires back "Aww, I hope you dont feel like that because of me.... I believe God will make someone for you... I mean someone who actually likes you"
I could tell that he felt so proud of himself. like this statement would just make my day! NOT!! What I took from that statement was "I mean, I couldn't stand you, and I really dont see any other man on the planet being able to put up with you either, so God's gotta make somebody who can do it!"
[P.S.: he goes on to ask "what ever happened to that one guy who liked you? where is he?"] (o_O)
First of all: I dont appreciate the over-glorification of relationships! Just because im sans-Man doesnt mean i'm lonely!!!
Secondly: Kids aint for everyone....i mean, some of us just shouldnt procreate!
Third: Why is HE, of all people, trying to give me advice/encouragement about relationships?!??!? He f*cked me over major, and not because I was all in love (because I honestly dont think i was) but because he knew he never wanted to pursue a relationship with me, but strung me along long enough to get a girlfriend that met his standards, then left me in the dust!
In the past I have been hurt by guys. Even though I've never been in a relationship, I've allowed myself to be used up by men (and I regret it every day of my life!). I don't think that any of these fellas should be extending friendship to me after doing me that way and they mos def shouldn't be commenting on my relationship status!!!
